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Tolerating Bad Behaviour in Relationships: Why Do We Do It?

I read this article/story the other day that I was sent by a client who has been struggling with the dating scene.  I was struck by sadness and fear about people tolerating bad behaviour in relationships while questioning their own reality.  The question that keeps coming up for me is, why do […]

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Another One For The One-Sided Double Standard Rule Book Of Marriage!

And thanks for this wonderful tidbit to add to my One-sided Double Standard Rules of Marriage collection: A couple have a child with severe allergies to peanuts.  The mother is very meticulously in charge of protecting their child, including fighting with airlines at times about making sure they have a […]

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Good & Bad Feelings…Are Those Our Only Options?

Why are we told that we should only experience and feel feelings that are deemed as “good”?  We are told it is acceptable to be happy, joyful, loving, excited, passionate but we should never feel sad or angry or hurt or worried or shame or guilt because they are “bad”. […]

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